He wasn't leaving State. I can't really remember all of the story. I know how Kirsten was at the time. Thug.
I suspect if he actually did get that hint from her she's was ... how to put this?
A year before starting her relationship with Setas, she became a part of an altercation that lead to a lawsuit. She was accused of brutally beating up one of her sorority sisters following a verbal exchange. She was posting about an issue they had on Facebook which prompted the other to confront her in her room. The lawsuit was later dismissed, as the judge ruled the case as Kristen only acting in self-defense.